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Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Mercy

Mercy is defined as:
1. A compassionate treatment
2. To be kind and forgiving
3. Something for which to be thankful; a blessing
4. Alleviation of distress; relief

In the past week, I asked for mercy more times than I can remember. An unexpected hiccup in our adoption had my mind in a tailspin. We submitted our I-800, were full of bliss and i was busy preparing a super cool photo album to send to N to introduce us. I was excited about packing and busy nesting when it all came to a screeching halt. My heart was breaking and all I could muster to do was cry out of mercy. To God, to everyone I spoke with, to a homestudy agency that we had volunteered at year after year, hoping, praying that someone would have mercy on us. They didn't know us know us personally, but I thought about the good Samaritan, who came to a stranger's aid just because it was the right thing to do. After numerous dead ends, we got a return call from a new homestudy agency over the weekend that was recommended by a friend. I knew right away upon speaking with them, that they would do what they could to help. They showed us mercy and I cried, tears of joy this time. We met in person earlier this week and during the meeting, I got a call from T. There was an agreement that had been worked out to continue processing our paperwork! My heart overflowed with the mercy we were given and thankfulness for everyone that was working on our behalf and how God had moved another mountain, once again to bring our daughter home to us. Now...back to nesting!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Did you have home study problems with your last adoption? Or maybe it was with the i-600. I could've sworn I remember you writing about it last year.

Jodie said...

Yep, we had trouble getting approval from IL DCFS with the bare bones info we had from Congo. Afterwards, we learned that IL had a number of disrupted Ethiopian adoptions where the parents hadn't re-adopted in IL. This leaves the kids in limbo as they have no legal status in the state and are stuck in foster care. The Ethiopia issue was solved with the govt requiring 2 trips so the kids arrive in the US as citizens, then we showed up with the first Congolese adoption in the state which started the concern all over again. In the midst of it, it was frustrating. Now knowing the backstory, IL DCFS did the right thing by requiring us to get more documentation on our daughter.